‘The quality of your life ultimately depends on the quality of your relationships’
— Esther Perel
Relationships are not easy to navigate for any of us, most of us have not had healthy relationships modelled to us. We don’t know what a healthy relationship looks like, and therefore we lack the basic skills and tools we need to create one. Unhealed past wounds and trauma from childhood and our previous relationships will always surface in intimate connections. This can feel challenging for any couple to navigate. But like everything in life, it can be learned!
My work with couples is all about arming you with all the tools, and skills you need to create more connection, understanding, empathy, desire, and trust.
We can learn how to be in healthy functioning relationships if we commit to investing time and energy into learning new skills and tools.
“After years of studying couples and working with them, it has become clear that happy couples live by the credo ‘When you are in pain, the world stops and I listen.’ - John Gottman
I believe all couples who want to thrive and flourish should have a relationship coach or therapist. What better way to acknowledge that your relationship matters and that you greatly value it? Wherever we focus our attention, and whatever we give energy to grows and blossoms.
Healing our relationships has a ripple out effect, how we relate to others impacts everything we do and how we feel about ourselves.
This is some of the deepest work you may ever do. The benefits are huge. Life changing. If you want to find out more book a clarity call !
Relationship Coaching
What we may address or work on together:
● Resolve and Repair. Learn how to resolve conflict, repair and come back into connection. Maybe you are navigating a recurring conflict you don't know how to resolve together. You just seem to go round and round and end up in the same place and you need some support in finding resolutions and repairing.
● Rebuilding trust and connection after infidelity or a breach of trust. Learn the art of forgiveness and building trust so you can move forwards if that is what you both desire.
● Rekindle and reawaken desire! You have lost a bit of the ‘spark’ and are looking to rekindle passion, desire, intimacy and playfulness.
● Re-establishing connection after a baby You have recently had a baby and the dynamic has changed between you and you need support to reconnect and re-evaluate your roles.
● Changing your container to open or closed. Find ways to navigate a change with sensitivity and safety.
● Consciously un-coupling. Sometimes you have done everything you can and its time to end a relationship. Take your time to lovingly and consciously un-couple in the most respectful way causing as little harm as possible to everyone involved.
● Find more ways to uphold, respect, desire and love each other. You may simply want to be the best, happiest and most thriving couple and you know that relationship coaching will support you to do that.
● Learn new tried and tested skills and tools to help you thrive! Work with me to learn great communication skills, navigate challenges, bringing you closer together and supporting you to maintain a healthy dynamic
“Desire is not just the impulse that leads us to the bedroom; it is the pulse that keeps us alive” - Mantak Chia ( The Multi-Orgamsic Couple)
Testimonials
“Working with Kim helped us to listen to each other in a whole new way. Before we couldn’t really hear what the other was really saying. We were both so caught up in what we wanted for ourselves. We learned some simple techniques and tools that have not only improved our communication, but also helped us to feel more connected and like we are on the same page. Its made a huge difference.”
Sarah & Josh
“We have definitely found our spark again! We thought it would be hard work, but our sessions with Kim were really enjoyable and fun.
We had gotten into a bit of a rut and Kim helped us infuse our relationship with a bit more playfulness and excitment. We started doing intimacy exercises, planning date night, and finding more space to connect more deeply. We are in such a good place now, thanks to this work!”
Paul & Amber
“We were having some trust issues in our relationship. We didn’t really know if we could get passed it…it was really taking its toll. But through a lot of the work we did with Kim, a lot of tears, and soul searching- we decided to stay together and have been working on rebuilding trust and connection. I dont think we would still be together if it wasn’t for Kim. Thank you, we love you! “
Daniel & Aaron
What's included in my packages
3 month container :
● 12 sessions in total 75 minutes.
● Text and voice message support and guidance in between sessions.
● Homework like date nights and guided practices in between sessions.
Investment : £ 1500 ( can be paid in installments ).
6 month container :
● 2 x 75 minute sessions a month.
● Text and voice message support and guidance in between sessions.
● Homework like date nights and guided practices in between sessions.
Investment : £2000 (can be paid in installments)
I offer payment plans on request. Please talk to me about the fee if there are any worries or concerns.
Whats the next step?
Book a free consultation call with me to see if we are a good fit to dive in and do this transformational work together. I look forward to hearing from you !
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